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writes: My relationship is on the rocks... My girlfriend is confused about our relationship becoz one of her friends proposed to her. I know it all my fault coz i was never there for my girl when she needed me and now i have realised my mistake and i am tryin to correct it. but she still seems to be confused she loves me a lot. but things went wrong when she met her friend and they ended up kissin and he kept on sayin that he loves her more than i do and he is gonna be there for her whenever she needs anyone.i want her back please advice me what should i do to get her back... she means a lot to me.... Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 April 2006): I have a question not an answer, I have been dating this guy very seriously for 3 months he would tell me how in love he was all the time and now he brok up with me totally out of the blue. He says we have nothing in common and were too differnt, but he used to say we had so much in common. I dont want to lose him because im so in love and he even said when we broke up that he loved me. Now I have to work with him. What can I do to get him back?
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reader, Mariels +, writes (21 April 2006):
Hello Cockle,
It sounds like you really do love this girl. My man wasn't there for me either and we have just broken up. I still have feelings for him but would never let him know right now, so she might be doing the same thing. It sounds like a cliche, but really, you don't know what you've got til it's gone. I did everything to let my ex know how much I loved him, but he's said he's confused about how he feels so I've let him go. It's hard for her to trust you again which is probably why she's sticking with this other guy - he seems like a 'safer' bet. She might well love you, but she's not ready or doesn't want to get back with you. You could tell her how you feel and what you think you did wrong, and how you would make it right if you were to give it a second chance. Choose the right moment though, cos it might get too heavy and she might not want to hear it. Be gentle with her, and make sure you are prepared incase she says no (which I hope she doesn't). Good luck mate xx
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