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female
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anonymous
writes:I am having problems with a friend and I don't know what to do really.We became friends almost 10 years ago when he started dating my friend,and I started dating his. Last year we all broke up, and since then he's just been really weird with me. I heard some rumours of some mean things he has done, like share personal emails I sent, with everyone. We also used to have this project we did together, and I recently found out that he is no longer bothering with it and has removed all the work he has contributed.The thing is, he has never, ever said a word to me about it. I have never said a bad word about him, an never ever done anything mean to him (not that I know of),and I'm just totally sad to find out about this. I know he hates any kind of drama, so if I talk to him, that will give him reason to completely blank me. I would try talk to him,but I just know he won't talk to me. What else can I do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 June 2010): Maybe he feels as though you were only friends whilst he was with his girlfriend and maybe talking to you seems strange or even angers him depending on how him and his girlfriend broke up.
You could try talking to him when hes on his own so that no ones there to witness and if he still blanks you then its probably best to leave him for a while as hes probably not worth your friendship.
But do not automatically assume its because of you, like i said it may be more to do with his ex.
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