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*rostydoll
writes:I've been talking to this guy for the past 3 months,and before we started talking he had a girl friend that he was in love with for a year,but we started hanging out a lot, and things weren't going great between her and him, and he broke up with her, and me and him started talking closer,but here is the problem, he doesn't want to rush into things, and he still loves her, and he is starting to talk to her again, and i can pretty much say that, I love him, but he doesn't show me his feelings, he says he likes me a lot, but he still has feelings for her, so what should i do to make him chase me, and like me more?this sounds terrible, but I do need him, and I just don't know what to do,looks isn't the problem, neither is the fact that all of his friends like me.I just need him to know what he can loose me without telling him that.we know each other for a while now, and he did made out with me while he was dating his ex, but she hates me and i dont fond with her either,I just need some advices of how to make him fall for me even more.i know that he knows how to play the game, he leaves me with wanting more, i just want to do the same for him but i like him so much that i just forgive him for everything. like this monday i herd that the main reason why he isnt with his girl friend is because he doesnt want to hurt me, so bassicly im keeping him away from being happy, but than friday evening we talked it out and he said he is just confused.so i need help with him chassing me.please and thankyou.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 March 2009): The way you get him to chase you is to back off and let him come to you. You can't make any one like you by the way, they either do or they don't, just be yourself and be nice to him when you do see him and don't act jealous or ask a bunch of questions you don't need to know the answers to....let him ask you out....if he doesn't then move on, if he does don't stop dating other guys, guys like a challenge.
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reader, frostydoll +, writes (12 March 2009):
frostydoll is verified as being by the original poster of the question I am a virgin, and I'm not planing on loosing i any time soon, him and his ex aren't dating, but this is just so complicated, and the fact that he isn't chasing me is what gets me, i always know how to make a guy like me, but he is just a different story, that's why i need some ones help.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 March 2009): Oh my gawd is this advice on how to be a ho? First off have some decency and respect for the fact that he has a girlfriend and guys in relationships are off limits....especially if he is telling you that he loves HER. It is not a nice thing what you are doing, he is confused because you are making out with him and chasing him.
But if you really want to date him then back the F off and leave them both alone. Let them get on with it, if they break up, which they probably will at some point, relationships at your age are ususally short lived.
Just be his friend. If you talk to him and listen to him and speak back to him that you understand to him then you will be creating a dependency on you for his emotional support and friendship and a bond will start to form.
Good boy girl relationships are built on a solid foundation of friendship not strip tease acts! In fact
he most likely would lose respect for you and not want you to be his girlfriend, a sex toy maybe, but not a girlfriend.
Save the sex for later when it will be special because you are in love and have a plan for your relationship.....and let him set the pace on the relationship, you get to set the pace on how soon you have sex.....and the longer you wait the more you will know if he loves you for you....funny how that works.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 March 2009): Okay this is what you need to do...
First tell him that you love him but you're not sure if you should be with him cause of the other girl he likes.
Then get really close to him and make out with him.
After strip infront of him in a sexy way so he'll want you.
Then when he loves you more than the other girl have sex with him... Good sex! Make him want more.
Tell him you have to go home and you'll call him later but don't and when he asks you why say I was busy so it's misterious.... Stuff like that gets guys interested in you..... That should do it!
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