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*sk and you shall receive..(well,ill try my best)
writes: Me and my boyfriend broke up, we were together for 2 years!i felt somthin ws wrong cos he wasn't treating me well,he was always taking me for granted and wen i asked him about it,he took the opportunity and dumped me!:( my heart broke like i never thought possible.He said its bcos of school and that we're too young etc.(like i didnt already know that??It's like he was thinking he's the only one who's worried,like im not in the same relationship as he is!)Anyway,2 months later here i am and i'm miserable!i don't know who to turn to anymore,my friends try but they've never had a long relationship like mine.He told his friends that hes over me after the 4th day of our break up!And i feel like utter crap cos it means that i meant that little to him after soo long,all my patience and love that i gave him all down the drain!I dnt kno wat to do!And we are in the same group of friends!i try to avoid confrontations,but i can't control wher he hangs out.I feel lost,i feel like it's been only a few weeks since the breakup,and he's soo happy without me!I can't stop feeling like i've wasted 2 years with him because he doesn't even seem effected or in the least upset by not being with me!:( and it just makes it worse.What can i do to get my mind off from my ex and move on?
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reader, Bombshelley  +, writes (15 May 2008):
 hey,
arwww iv been in the same situation, being with someone you care about so much, then guys will be guys, and go all "off" on you, then not long later they leave you!
when my ex did this to me, i was constantly crying ect... its not the most amazing thing in the world !
and then they act like they dont even miss you, and i too felt like id wasted my time with someone which didnt love me back, im not to sure what to say ....
but i said to myself "hey... this obviously wasnt ment to be" then it makes me determand, to make him think "dammm i shouldnt of left her!"... make them regret there choice haha :)
and remember, theres loads of guys out there, and soon you will find someone that loves you more than anything, until then just enjoy life !
xxxxx
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