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writes: My girlfriend is afraid to open up to me. It's not that she dosen't trust me, or is afraid that I will not care for her anymore, but she dosen't like to make herself vulnerable. There is something from her past that she wants to tell me but can't bring herself to do it. We talk about the thing all the time and I've told her how I feel, but what I can I do to help her tell me?
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 December 2005): hi there.u didnt mention how long u two have been going out. she has trust issue and that's why she is still holding back. its nothing to do with u unfornately. I have been with my bf been with him now for 3 months and there are thing i have still shared with him. give her time she will open up to you as the relationship progresses. she must have been hurt pretty bad in the past. another thing is that u could probably set up a romantic setting and appeal to her sofly she just might open up but if not dont rush her.try to be patient and understanding.hope i was able to help.
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