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writes: I'd like to know what a woman is to do that a man would pay attentions to her. I'm with my boyfriend for three years now but I never really had the feeling he would court me. What does pursuing actually means. And what I'm I to do not to pay attentions to him put lett him do this job? I'd like to learn how to get court by a man. What am I doing wrong not to be court? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 December 2007): It's not the time. We spend a lot of quality time together - but mainly because it's me asking for it. I actually don't know what it is, but I have just the feeling, he takes me for granted. I contrast know that he is not sure about me. He told me that there are a few things about he doesn't know if he can accept. But I try to enhance myself and do everything I can to be a good girlfriend. Am I just a cheep girlfriend, easy to have?
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 December 2007): Hi Hun,
You say you have been with your b/f 3 years now and by reading your post carefully I think im right in saying that you dont feel you spend enough time going out and being together, Or he is not putting in the effort to take you out or spend time just the two of you.
To pursue someone Is an old fashioned saying here so is courting its what my mum and dad used to do.. My dad pursued my mum when he met her by courting her very romantic in them days but these days if I asked my b/f what it ment he would look really puzzled...
You have now been in a relationship for 3yrs hunny I dont no where you come from so it may well be different traditions there, I have a feeling that your b/f is very much into work and you feel he is not giving you much attention and if this is the case love then when you do have time to see him talk to him sweetheart, Its a two way thing being in a relationship if he does not no your not happy then he will think everything is ok, You have to talk and just let him no your feeling a little lonely and want the two of you to have some quality time together. I hope Ive helped a little and have understood your question correctly take care of you love MANDY XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX
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