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writes:We hear why bad boys are liked; because they live on the edge, are exciting, can't be tamed easily and are unpredictable. For all those reasons are why I like Bad Girls but you never hear about guys chasing women like that much. So do you like the bad girl type? If so or not, what are your reasons? Reply to this Question
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reader, Jmtmj  +, writes (20 January 2011):
 Good post by Odds.
You may not hear a lot about guys liking bad girls, but damn, you hear a lot of stories on here about guys being burnt by a bad girl and swearing to stay away from their type for life...
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reader, Kilcardy +, writes (20 January 2011):
In my opinion, the male ego really doesn't want a bad girl to be his girl because we boys generally don't like sharing our women. Bad girls are fun for a party, but not for the real deal.
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reader, The Realist  +, writes (20 January 2011):
 I think that there tends to be lust for the bad girls but I've been in a relationship with one and they are really hard to trust. Most guys, or at least I have realized that you can imagine what it would be like with one but in reality it really doesn't work.
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reader, Odds +, writes (20 January 2011):
 Girls want to take a bad boy and tame him into their boyfriend. They want to believe that they are so special they can make the Player stop sleeping around and become exclusive. Girls like bad boys because they want the chance to be special to him.
Guys don't want to turn bad girls into girlfriends. They want to bang bad girls and move on the way the last fifty guys did. Guys want to turn nice girls into girlfriends. The only exceptions are when guys believe the nice girls will always be bad in bed. This is why you never hear about guys chasing bad girls.
Incidentally, this is why it sucks to be a nice girl until the mid 20's, why it sucks to bea bad girl starting in the early 30's, why it always sucks to be a nice guy, and why it always rocks being a bad boy.
I don't like the bad girl type - at least not to date. Have a few friends who fit that description, though. I see promiscuity as habit forming, and as damaging to the ability to form long-term pair bonds, so I don't engage in it, or date people who do. I also don't want to bother with "taming" someone, particularly if I feel the ultimate reward has suffered the damage I already mentioned. Doesn't make them bad people, just bad girlfriends (for their sake, I hope I'm wrong).
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