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writes: After living together for 2 years, my girlfriend moved out of my apartment and got her own place. We still wanted to be together, but just decided that it would be good for us to have a little more space for the time being. Now, that we don't live together, she is very interested in having an active social life that doesn't include me. She is also hanging out with younger girlfriends that don't have boyfriends, and refuses to include me. Often she will gop to bars with them and stay out real late. This situation is driving me crazy. Should I allow her the freedom to have this active social life that doesn't include me?
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reader, badjelli +, writes (11 October 2005):
I know exactly where she is coming from. Depending on her age maybe she really feels she missed out on being single? Thats how I feel as I got married too young and then divorced after 6 years and before I knew it I was living with a guy. Now I am about to be on the single scene again and really excited by it. People change, go through different phases in their lives. Please try to get on with your life and let her do her own thing. If it's meant to be then it will work out somehow.
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