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writes:I have been going out with my girlfriend for a long time now and I'm beginning to feel undesired.We do fun things together: Dates, events, ect...Lately she has spent a lot of time with different groups and clubs doing things with her friends (boys and girls). She always says she had a blast, but never really says anything like this after spending time with me.Any adivice? Do you think she is losing interest in me? When I try to move away because I'm feeling "unwanted" she starts clinging to me, which gets aggrivating.
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reader, mitch  +, writes (23 April 2007):
No i dont think shes lossing interest - as bmwabh says, shes just trying out new things, trying to be herself. you say she starts acting clingy when you move away, i think this is her realising this and perhaps just makes the simple mistake of trying to over compensate as such - but i think it shows shes still very much interested in you.
best of luck.
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reader, BIGmanwithaBIGheart +, writes (23 April 2007):
 hi there, im goin through a similar situation, i expect she is just trying out new things. Talk to her and explain how you feel and im sure she will understand. If you already have then maybe you should suggest coming along with her, hope it all goes well. BmwaBh
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