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writes:I am 40 and now my wife 38. I was attracted to a girl because she was very very pretty absolutely gorgeous and an easy lay ( by anyone). That turned me on so much that I fell in love with her and we married and have been so for the last 6 years. We both love each other very much and she has since marriage been very faithful. During the time we dated ( more than 12 years) she used to narrate all her sexual experiences with more than the 20 guys ( without naming) she had sex with as a teen and that turned me on even more (funny isnt it!). During sex, we still discuss various fantasies and one of them is participating in an orgy. Unfortunately the society we live in are very conservative. We realy want to enjoy this experience. We have no kids and do not intend to but want to live out this fantasy. Your advise !
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 September 2009): Well can't assist with India too much, but you two need to find a resort that accomidates swingers, allows nude sunbathing, nude hot tubs and has rooms for group play. These places exist (2 in Mexico alone), but I have NO idea if they exist closer to you...
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reader, main +, writes (7 January 2009):
main is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for the response and good advise. We are aware of the consequences of experimenting but one never knows how it would turn out until tried and tested.We pehaps would be conscious of thsi fact and would resign to accepting it as a one off case if all does not go well. I think we both have the courage and understanding to face this and hopefully it should be pleasant provided we have the right company. We would pehaps exercise caution as would and should be expected of the others engaging in such activity and hope all goes well.We feel electrified by the thought and that itself is rewarding !
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 January 2009): Do you need any advice? If you are both up for it just keep it discreet and do what you like. Just consider that this is the first time since you've been married that you will be consenting to sex with others. Whatever your 'fantasies' somtimes the reality can cause a lot of problems.
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