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writes: My girlfriend and I are experiencing a major problem in our relationship. We love each other very much with no doubts, but when it comes to sex, we don't seem to have a connection. When we first started dating, it was almost a total physical/sexual relationship and we would have good sex at least twice a day. Now we have got to know each other much better and we have a good emotional relationship but now it seems we only have sex once every two weeks if that and it is not very gratifying. I don't know what to do, I've researched romance and some other things as well but nothing I do can turn her on or get her in the mood. Please help, please, I love my girl and I know she loves me but we need help to save this relationship.
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reader, LoveDoctor +, writes (14 May 2005):
Don't push her talk about other things other than sex get to know her inner most thoughts a realationship needs somthing more than sex to stand on becuase when you've took away the sex what is there:take her out but expect to get any pleasure after because when you get to know her and you don't try anything she'll be thinking whats up and be ripping your pants off:Or try swinging
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reader, lauren1266 +, writes (12 May 2005):
Take a word of advice, If you and your girlfriend aren't having as much sex it's not the sex that is the real problem. Good sex on Monday starts on Friday. You have to see what the real problem is. Is there anything different in your relationship then when you guys had sex all the tome? After a while as a girl there are so many other things in our life and we can get by with not having as much sex. Maybe you could help her with things she need to do to lighten her responsiblity and commitments. Make her feel like you know when she needs you before she even has to ask. Because sometimes we're so busy that we just do it all and then get burned out.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 May 2005): Maybe your girlfriend isn't feelin the whole sex thing anymore, or maybe she has found somebody that can give her the "Big O" much better. Maybe you should try talking to her about why she isn't feelin' the whole sex twice a week thing anymore.
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reader, Devil's Advocate +, writes (12 May 2005):
 You've worn her out mate!What are the circumstances that you do have sex? Do you push it at other times?Try the romantic approach - candle-lit dinner, soft music etcAlthough an intelligent woman will catch onto this and think "Oh, here we go. I know what he wants, f&^k off!"At this juncture, you have a choice to discuss it with her or take what she says and walk.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 May 2005): Foreplay foreplay foreplay
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