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writes: I have been with my BF for 2 years now, we bought a house in the summer so since 6 months. We love each other so much that I think we love each other so bad. It is so funny why we love each other so much when we have sex once a week and when we do it, we have to plan thing,....it seemed that the less we do it the less we want it...we always find good excuses, work, tired, things to do. He play a lot of xbox, games.... Sometimes i feel that he prefer playing games, than having sex...Even before buying the house, we were doing it 1-2 /week.... now we can pass 2 weeks without....I don't like it at all...like i said we love each other...he wants to get married....but i am so wondering , does he really love me.... or its only convenient to have each other....I dont know what to do...confuse a lot...qc Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 November 2007): Thank you beanie0216very helpful. although my bf doesnt feel that there is a problem of playing game....and having sex once a week...which make me mads...and when we do it twice its like wow we do it all the time....anyways, i really need to focus and him too on our relationship.
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reader, beanie0216  +, writes (21 November 2007):
 I know how your feeling. First of all DO NOT let video games get in the way of your relationship. It's so bad, and pointless. If your boyfriend likes to play fine but tell him to limit himself, that extra hour of half hour not playing could be you both being intimate. I would talk to him, tell him how you feel. Tell him that having that kind of intimacy makes you feel good, loved, beautiful. Tell him that you both need to put a little more effort in the sexually aspect of the relationship. If it was just a convenience, I don't think he would be with you for 2 years and buy a house. If you need any other advice, don't hesitate to message me. Good luck.
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