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writes:oh my god, my head about to burst. i made out with my friend and i dont know whats happening. We went out, came bk and kissed, it started to get very heated than she stopped because she kept saying it didnt feel right! she said it but carried on, she wasnt being pressured, at one point i just got up and she pulled me back and undressed but later decided she cudnt do it.it doesnt make sense. next day in morning we discussed it she didnt want to lose the friendship. i dont think she has even considered wot she thinks about me whereas shes blown me away. i dont know why but it felt more intimate and it met something, maybe cause we were good friends before.she asked me to come see her in 2weeks because we at different unis far. but i know she hasnt eventhought about me and her, but i think there is something there and i know she is extremely comfortable with me, she tells me everythin we been friends for so long.i really felt like ringing her, she went earlier today but i kinda miss her its drivin me insane, this is jus stupid of me but i cant help it.should i tel her or wait to go meet her first or completely ignore it and not talk to her till things cool down. but i do like her, i care about her. Reply to this Question
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reader, crimson_kiss  +, writes (2 April 2009):
 Very confusing situation. You and her need to have a real face to face talk and discuss where this is going to go, if anywhere. She is afraid of losing the friendship, and that is understandable. She has confided so much in you that if you two become a couple and it doesn't work out, she will feel like she lost one of the most amazing things in her life. A friendship that she can trust and love and grow with will be shattered. She could be scared is all. The best thing to do is sit and talk to her and discuss with her all the fears and frustrations that are not only going on in her mind, but yours as well. Once you know all the feelings associated then you BOTH together can decide what is the best course of action to take, friendship or more.
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