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writes: Hi! I need some help, recently I feel that I and my fiance are arguing over small stuff, and I know we have to sort things out, we often do, but I have to be quiet and look pissed for him to see something´s wrong. And sometimes he comes directly, sometimes he comes after a while. He says he is afraid to make me upset, because he doesn´t want to..Well, the thing is, we have a wonderful realtionship, we are to be married in june 2007. But I´d like an advice or more to know how to make a conversation smooth and still get the upsetting feelings to the surface. And there´s that thing with his bills. I am careful with paying my bills, and he just lays them everywhere, then he asks me where they are, and I have to tell him:I don´t know, you have them here and there..How do i get him more organized? He gets reminders sometimes of his bills and my mother saw that and is also worried.
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reader, Eddiezbabygurl67 +, writes (21 June 2006):
 YAAAY AND THE WINNER OF THIS PETER PAN IS YOU!!!! :D:D, sorry, he is totally irresponsible, and you DO need to do somethin about it, but dont be negative about it, like..when you see him putting something you know he shouldnt put there just be like "hey, u gonna be able to find that later???" or soemthin, but dont be sarcastic or anything about it, just be sweet and cool about it. when he wants to start an arguement, just let him get it all out, if he starts yellin, just nod and agree..not like..ur not listening but like....let him know your listening but dont get all snappy and argumentitive back ya know wut im sayin?..man i hope im helping..a little...:) hope all works out for the bestest! Jess
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