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36-40,
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writes: I've been dating my boyfriend for a while so of course, the topic of our sexual histories has come up. I'm a virgin but I've gotten as far as oral sex (performing and receiving)....but with a girl.I'm totally and completely straight, and those incidents with that woman occurred about 4 or 5 years ago and hasn't happened since. I told my boyfriend that I've gotten and performed oral, but I let him believe that it was with a man. I felt too weird and embarrassed to say that my only true sexual experience thus far (besides kissing) was with a girl.Was I wrong for lying to him? Should I tell him it wasn't with a man?
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reader, mum2be  +, writes (29 March 2007):
The short answer is yes, you were wrong for lying to him. I can understand why you did it, but if you want the relationship to work, you have to be able to trust eachother! I dont suggest you now tell him you lied to him, as this will upset him, but you have to remember, when you two get down to buisness, he will expect you to knwo how to give a man oral sex...
Try not to lie to him anymore, ok?
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