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Unable to perform yet still aroused.

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Question - (26 February 2010) 3 Answers - (Newest, 28 February 2010)
A male United Kingdom age , *anitor writes:

dear cupid my problem is i am 52 my partner is 40 its a new relationship although we did have one a long time ago we both regret not staying together 23 years ago we lost contact all this time but met again recently and realised we still love each other. the problem is in bed i get so turned on in my head but it does not reach to my pants and i cant make love to her the way i want " like a man" i absolutely love giving oral to her to make her cum but the next day i am in agony with my testicals . when we talk on the phone and we are telling each other how much we are in love i become aroused we are both romantic and i love to tell her "sloppy luvy duvy things" i put my feelings for her into romantic actions or words and this can arouse me so why not in bed please help

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (28 February 2010):

This is natural for a man your age, but your medical condition prevents you from doing much to improve the physical aspect, so work on the emotional aspect. Respect and trust are far more important than an erection, so don't leave her wondering...explain how you feel and what's going on with your body as best you can. Don't try so hard to make "it" work if it won't. It's not the end of the world!

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A male reader, janitor United Kingdom +, writes (27 February 2010):

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sorry dude cant do cos am on loads of tablets for my heart but thanks anyway

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A male reader, lifeisshort United States +, writes (27 February 2010):

Dude, go get Cialis. 10-20mg and you'll be a champ 30-60 minutes after you take it, and it lasts all weekend. No, you don't walk around with a boner the whole time but you are able to get them when the mood strikes. Easy fix.

[Moderator's note: Please see your doctor about medical advice. Answerers write from personal experience only, for general safety it is better to check with a trained professional. To both original poster and answerers, thank you.]

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