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Torn between my big ex & new guy

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Question - (1 February 2009) 1 Answers - (Newest, 1 February 2009)
A female United States age 51-59, anonymous writes:

i meet a new guy in june and have feelings for him after leaving my ex. it just happen. i meet up with my ex two month later. i been sleeping with my ex boyfriend because he is big and knows how to treat me as a woman. my new guy is small and not very good and i have not slept with the new guy since. now my new guy is going to leave me but i have some feeling for him and we are going to live together. i still love my ex boyfriend as well. i am going with the new guy because i told my daughter this is the one. even though i have strong feelings for my ex boyfriend.i am scared to be by myself. so i slept with my new guy but it don't feel right. can i now build a strong relationship with my new guy? will i lose my ex boyfriend?

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (1 February 2009):

Rather selfish to stick to a guy just because you're afraid to be alone, on top of that you're cheating on him. It's not gonna work out if your new guy is inadequate for you. By reading what you said it seems you have stronger feelings for your ex, go with him and leave the new guy be to find someone he can truly be perfect for.

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