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female
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36-40,
Curiousbynature
writes:Guys are pretty simple. Well from what I have been in contact with. If you trust them, dont act all crazy, and once in a while crack a few jokes, they will love you. The problem starts when you worry about them day and night, when you arent telling jokes anymore. Mostly, when you acuse them of cheating (when usually they havent even thought about doing it until you brought it up) is when you will ruin a smoothly running relationship.Another tip... dont give up. Fights are perfectly healthy and you can learn alot about your partner from them. I have learned when a guy gets angry and can control it, he is a keeper. Now if he lashes out when you fight and wants to give up on the relationship everytime, throw him out, not even worth your time. But, the ones that stick through it, they are the ones probably not cheating. I have had one guy cheat on me. He and his (cheating half) are now married. I thought I was in love with this man. I know now, I was not. Another tip... DONT CHEAT! It feels awful and usually messes women up for their next couple relationships. And guys, if you are with a girl that has been cheated on recently, watch out! I know from experience, they are messy. And when women acuse you of cheating let them know that it hurts you to think that she woudl think that. Let her know that it bothers you that she woudl ever think you could do that. That will reassure he a great deal, and maybe prevent her from bringing it back up! All-in-all just be truthful and nothing can happen that you cannot handle! Reply to this Article
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reader, ask sweeney :)  +, writes (11 August 2008):
 always remember ... be open minded to the fact that
"maybe this guy is diffrent" because u never know he could be a amazing person and not ur typical player or cheater of a guy .... try to get to know a person for who they really are on the inside and not jst who they appear to be on first impressions :)
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