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writes: I've met a woman at work a few weeks ago. We seemed to like each other and looked like heading for a relationship. Now she says she may be dating me in the future but not right now. She refuses to talk about it. She says she will talk to me about it later, but not now. She is not too happy to see me at work. I know she has some child custody problems at home, but why refuse to talk?
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reader, xxxsoulsistaxxx  +, writes (16 February 2006):
 She sounds like she needs some space. If she's got things going on outside work then she needs to sort all that out before she even thinks about guys and dating. Just chill out, give her the space she wants and, if it's meant to be, she'll come back to you and make the first move to get things going.
Being patient and supportive in situations like this is all you can do, really. But if you do this well, she'll see what a great person you are and maybe think better of you when she comes out of the other side of her troubles feeling better. Good luck
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reader, lonly_in_rc +, writes (16 February 2006):
my money says she is working things out with an ex boyfriend that she cares alot about. if she is like this now what happens later? can you pick up what im putting down?
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