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writes:I have been dating a guy for the past 6 months. For the most part, things are great. He treats me well and we really get along. The problem is that he has told me numerous time that he loves me but that he hates that he loves me and wishes he didn't. I don't know if I should panic about this or not. We're both successful, intelligent, attractive people with similar values and social backgrounds, so I don't understand why he thinks loving me is such a problem. It's not that he doesn't want commitment. He constantly talks about how he wishes he were married and had children by now. In fact, he's even mentioned, without realizing he's doing it, that he thinks we'll get married someday. He makes offhand comments like, "When we build our house together. . ." or "Will you act like that around our kids?" I guess my qustion is, why doesn't he want to love me? Reply to this Question
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reader, auddi  +, writes (29 August 2008):
Oh i don't think you need to worry so much esp since he tlaks about kids and your house together and stuff like that. Ask him why he says that - he will tell u.
And like the answer above, maybe he does think he us undeserving of you!
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reader, superrrshawna +, writes (29 August 2008):
 you need to ask him that! maybe he simply thinks he is undeserving of you.
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