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The new lecturer!!!

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Question - (13 February 2011) 0 Answers - (Newest, )
A female South Africa age 41-50, anonymous writes:

Hi all!

First up, I would like to thank you in advance for reading my post. Here's my problem:

I'm in my second year of studying performance art and with it came a new lecturer. Well he's not that new because I used to see him around campus as he always teaches a subject to the 2nd year student and even before I got to be in his class, I always thought he was very attractive. I major in acting and he teaches us how to show honest feelings. The class is very emotional and intense. And because he's so open and not scared to be vulnerable infront of us, I found myself falling madly inlove with the guy. It has become a problem because I can't focus during lessons because of him. I avarage B- on my results and push myself to get better grades but the way things are going I might just fail.

I don't know how to handle the situation. It's not like I can walk up to him and say "I think I'm in love with you and I will fail your class because you're a distraction"... I can't stop going to classes either nor can I ask for another lecturer as he's the only one who teaches this subject at my college.

I'm really confused on how I should handle this as I am a serious student who does not want to fail... or act on my emotions towards this wonderful man... who won't allow anything happen anyway because he's extremely professional.

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