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writes:last summer in Spain I met the guy of my life, kind, cute, attractive, masculine, intelligent. After few dates he told me he already took vows of chastity/poverty because he wants to be a priest (Jesuit). I was in shock, but I decided to keep going on this relationship. We had a fantastic summer, but things changed when we got back to the States. We both live and work in the US in different cities. I still love him, he still loves me too. How Can I forget him? How Can I let him go from my heart and mind? How can I not be sad when I think of him? We both are going to therapist, they say not to see each other anymore :-( Reply to this Question
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reader, javierft +, writes (9 November 2010):
javierft is verified as being by the original poster of the question Thank you very much for your comments. I know let him go is hard and it hurts a lot, but I have to. As you said only time will help us.
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reader, bjo84 +, writes (8 November 2010):
Life is hard that way. It is especially difficult when circumstances like these get in the way. Emotion complicates things even more so. Try to keep a logical perspective. I know it's difficult but try. It's not going to be easy letting him go. You will always think of him and feel sadness. Letting go is as simple as time. The more time that passes the less you will be in touch the emotions that attached you to the thing or person to begin with. I hope this helps. Good luck my friend.
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