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writes: I was just wondering that how early on in the dating game can one broach the "intentions". I've been out of the dating game for years and at the moment I'm only looking for a serious long term relationship. I'm 30 something and so I want to make it clear to my date and early on that I'm up for the dating game only if I can reap long term benefits. So far, he tells me that he misses me whenever we're not meeting and when he's travelling, he tells me that he felt lonely because everyone seemed to have a special someone with him/her gf/bf and he was all alone. Is he alluding something, or am I being a little delusional?! If it's my turn to say something, how do I go on doing that without freaking him away or is being direct better? Does anyone have a clue? H E L P Please, ta x Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 January 2012): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionTo blond30s and male anon- many thanks for the tips! right on! Patience is key, playing it cool, eh!
Male Anon- I couldn't agree more! that's the best test of all times ;-)
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 January 2012): Yes, hold out on sex for the first couple of months until you get a commitment. All the liars and players will go away and the more serious ones will stick around.
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