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writes: He "needs to be single"I was friends with an amazing guy for a few months and then we started dating. I left town for summer vacation, and though I missed him terribly, I felt things would be okay if we could just be patient. We talked on the phone and internet constantly. As I write this, I have 20 days before I can see him again.BUT! Last week he broke up with me... saying that he 'needed to be single.' It came out of nowhere... I didn't even know what to say, but I finally told him that I wasn't angry and I'd be okay. Well... I'm not okay, but I don't want to tell him that... Most people would probably read this and think he's a jerk... He's not. He still instant messages me every night, says he cares about me and is still going to pick me up from the airport.SO... My question is: Is there a possibility he'll get over whatever he's going though and want me again? And why would he do this in the first place when things were going well as far as i could see?
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reader, miss_nice2006 +, writes (3 August 2006):
 hi i konw were u are comeing from my boyfriend dunp me about 3 weeks ago and she still wont to be friend we me wich i dont get really i think this guy that dunp u still like you some were in him biut he just dont really wont to say. i think he may wont to get back with u but u bout that what i think but u will just have 2 see wont u
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 August 2006): I have been in his place before and I understand sort of how he feels. Things for me ended tragically, but I won't get into that, because it is of no relevence. Anyways, it sounds like he is having a hard time having a girl who's away. It's obvious that he misses you, I think he might just be trying to avoid it by being able to tell himself that he is no longer with you, so that it might be easier. This may not be the case for him, but it was the case for me. If he is still keeping in touch and definately wants to see you when you return home, then there is a good chance that he will want to be with you again then. For now, though, he just wants to focus on himself and not sit around missing his vacationing girlfriend. If he is anything like I was, he probably hated the question, "so where's your girlfriend?" And having to answer, "on vacation." Just be patient and hope for the best upon your return. I hope everything works out okay in the end. I wish you the best of luck. Stay strong!
~RJGirl
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