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writes:Please helpI am torn between 3 guysguy number one: I did have a relationship with him, but things just didn't feel the same as they used to, so we both decided to end it. However I still feel something for him.guy number two: we have admitted we like each other, but we don't get to see each other that often and I'm not sure how he truely feels.guy number three: I am amazing friends with him but I think he has feelings for me, he always says I'm pretty, maked him smile and laugh, and things like that. Also just today we were speaking online and he was leaving (to play on his xbox haha) and he said "love you long time" and I said "psssh, haha" (as a joke, we kid around all the time) and he said "no im being serious" with loads of kisses afterwards.I really have no idea what to do, I don't want to tell any of them how I feel because that will just add to the complication. I have no idea how I feel about them, or how they feel. Help will be GREATLY appreciated. Thankyou so much x Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 April 2009): i am in the same situation and i have no idea what to do, i think we should both choose guy number 1 because if y'all have all ready been out, than you know what to expect, and guy 2 well like you said, you never get to see him so, no and guy number3 well you wouldn't want to mess up a great friendship by going out, plus it might get awkward......................peace
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reader, little lilly +, writes (4 April 2009):
I would go for guy number 3, it's always a great starting point being good friends to start with. He sounds really nice and it sounds like he's already been forward with his feelings, now it's your turn. I know it's difficult, but being shy won't get you anywhere. Hope things go well.
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reader, Florence Grey +, writes (4 April 2009):
 ok definitely start thinking about which you like the best. Which qualities do you like in them? Do you have more in common with one than the others?I wouldn't go for guy no1 because ttrying to get back with Ex's can be messy. It is also completely understandable that you still have feelings for him but remember that you ended for a reason.If you don't get to see guy no2 that often is it a good idea? Would you be able to have a relationship with him based on the fact you don't get to see him very much?Finally no3 sounds good but do you like him as much as you think he likes you? Also you say the two of you are 'amazing friends' already - if you do want something to happen between you, think long and hard about the affects of it on your friendship first!hope this helps :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 April 2009): who make's you feel the most special? and who do you feel most like yourself around? ask your self those two questions and also ask who you think you love the most and who you think you will last with xcx
hope i helped xx
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