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writes:Just curiousity! Who initiates sex more? the man or the woman? Reply to this Question
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reader, eddie +, writes (25 January 2008):
 I guess it is different for everybody but I would bet my last dollar it's men. I'm certain that men are the ones that think about it more even if they don't initiate every time. If we initiated every time it crossed our minds, you'd be less than thrilled. As I often say, the fact of the matter is this. Women can have sex whenever they choose...ANYTIME. Men can have sex whenever they're chosen. That is the proof. Women can have sex when they choose and men can't. So the fact that women choose to have sex less often than they choose to have sex, men initiate more often. I believe this 100 %. It's an age old problem in relationships and a common topic of discussion. There are exceptions to the rule but this is most common. It's is natures work, animals, humans etc.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 January 2008): In this day and age both men and women know what they want and when they want it in relation to sex. There's no hard and fast rules about who should or should not initiate it any more
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 January 2008): My bf always initiates sex much more than I do. I'll be baking cookies and he walks in behind me and starts poking me. I'll be reading a book and he'll start touching my leg. I just give him a kiss good bye before I go to work and he immediately gets a erection and tries to take me back to the bed. But I personally like the fact that he initiates it. I guess I like the "chase" and he likes to do the "chasing." I guess its just part of our dynamic and it works for us. I'll be honest though, when I first meet a guy, I usually initiate the sex, the first kiss, just everything. I am very straightforward.You know but I think also it depends on the guy, I guess. But I have always had bf's who were very sexual.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 January 2008): Men!They seem to be the most horny ones, and it is more often my man initiating sex. They seem to always be up for it, where as women can be more tired! However, prostitutes are usually thought of as women, so this could be taken into account.
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