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writes:I met a guy early last year in May and we have been happily in love ever since... He engaged me last year October and i agreed...I love my Fiance and trust him, i have never had any problem with him...but lately things are turning out very bad... we forever argue about stupid little things and lately i find it hard to get him on the phone, we dont even see each other as often as we used too, the calls have reduced and he keeps insisting that ive met some one new... i dont know what has gotten to him but im hurtin so much right now...we never used to go through a day with out talking on the phone but lately we can spend 3 whole days with out talking or smsing. I dont think its a women involved but i definetly think some thing it up....I need serious help coz i love him and dont want to leave him:-(
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reader, Spanner28  +, writes (12 January 2009):
 Right ill make this very clear. Once a man proposes to his girlfriend, he feels secure and at ease with the relationship. He believes that once a ring is on your finger then he just relax and take each day as it comes and think that because you are engaged he doesnt need to give you as much attention to keep you where he wants you. This is not on.
When you do manage to get in touch with him you need to have an exceptionally long and deep talk. Being engaged is a serious commitment, its not something you just do on the off chance. If this is how he is going to act once you 2 are married, is it really worth being in a relationship?
Your fiance is taking you for granted and its out of order. He cant expect you to just take a back seat now he has taken the next step in your relationship. You need to think about this, if you cant change him then you need to leave him. I dont want to see you being in an unhappy marriage so please for your own sake and sanity, talk to him and find out what the hell he is playing at
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reader, Gossamer +, writes (12 January 2009):
The first thing you need to do is talk to him, no matter how hard this may be for you. You need to find out what's been bugging him of late, and ask him if you can do anything to help. If you've stayed faithful to him, you have nothing to feel guilty about. It's probably something that you can quickly resolve over some lunch. Call him today - don't put it off, as this will make things worse. Best of luck!
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