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Should I wait for him or move on?

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Question - (18 November 2007) 4 Answers - (Newest, 18 November 2007)
A female Lebanon age 26-29, anonymous writes:

hi,i have known this guy for so long, and we have been freinds since( he loved me soo much).and i knew it, i didn't love him that way at the time, but we stayed freinds for years. about a 2 weeks ago i left my boyfreind, and was so unhappy, and my freind was there for me even when i was really in a bad mood and pick up fights with him! so i started developping more and more feelings for him. just to realise that i love him! and i knew he loved me too( he told me all the time, and one thing about him is that doesn't know how to lie!).

so we went out on dates, just to realise that there is another girl in his life!

i knew at some point that he won't wait for me forever, but i was so sad.now he says that our story never ends , but he doesn't wanna leave her becuase he has feelings for her as well!

what sould i do? should i move on? or just wait for him?

thanks for taking time to read this.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (18 November 2007):

I have to say thats a tough on, but only because im in the same situation myself, my friend has split from her ex to just become fuck buddies, with the cheating scumbag, i told her how i felt to be told she thinks im great but not in that way, my problem is i dont know whether to wait myself or not, nut personaly with regards to your situation i think waiting is the best policy, he told you he still loves you, just wait and see and try not to pressure him to decide like i did with my friend that was my mistake just give yourselves time ok, and good luck

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (18 November 2007):

I would move on. If he REALLY liked you he would leave her and be with you. I know this for a fact because it happened to me once with a guy friend of mine. I liked him and he liked me but I was dating someone else. So eventually he started dating this other girl. But when I broke up with my bf, me and my guy friend started hanging out alot, we kissed and the next day he broke up with that girl and me and him became boyfriend/girlfriend. See? If he really liked you absolutely no woman will stand in the way. That's a fact. So yeah I think you should move on.

And I don't understand why the two comments below are telling you to reconcile with your ex. I mean if you broke up then I am sure it was for a good reason. So let it be.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (18 November 2007):

talk to your boyfriend, dont do anything stupid with this new guy, he's obviously using you

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A reader, anonymous, writes (18 November 2007):

Talk to your boyfriend, try n reignite the spark you had with him, you know that it is a realtionship that could work. Forget this new guy, he's a rebound! and if he already has a woman he's not going to be an honest and trustworthy boyfriend

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