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writes: well my bf and i have been together 3 years. And i was at a party one night, and slept with his best friend. I really regret it n still love him. So do u think it'd be best to tell him or just leave it alone?
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 January 2007): i cant believe the advice given here... ''wat he doesnt know wont hurt'' , ''just leave it''... thats awful, this woman has just commited the ultimate betrayal and your giving her a get out.
how can you even say you love your bf, youve ruined your relationship,broke his heart and ruined his friendship. id hate to see what you do with enemies if thats love.
tell him the truth. if hes stupid enough he'll forgive you, i hope he doesnt.
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reader, krongie +, writes (29 December 2006):
 for me, you'd better leave it bacause it will ruin your relationship and trust of your guy, so it is better to keep it, "it won't hurt him if he douesn't know" but i'll tell you, just be ready for any thing because you can never hide a secret forever, and cheating on your bf with his best bud is the biggest mistake you'll ever commit you'll not only ruin your relationship, but as well as there friendship. so you'd better pray that he won't hear or know any of this.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 December 2006): Why did you do it? Answer that for yourself. Then, if you really regret it, and really love your boyfriend, tell him right now! You may lose him, but if you explain everything and be honest, maybe he will give you another chance. Love is a powerful thing. If not, then at least you won't have the guilt forever. If you really don't care, then keep lying, you'll probably cheat again, and you shouldn't be in a relationship. I've been the boyfriend in this situation. It hurt, but knowing was better than not. My girlfriend and I are still together. It wasn't with my best friend though...
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