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writes:I don't know what to do! i love my boyfriend and he loves mi too and we want to be together. everyone doesn't approve and they don't want us to be together. everyone says that he seems the jeolouse type and that soon he won't let mi go out with my friend and that he is going to be controling and they are making all these asuptions and on some they are right. which is making me think what if its too soon and they are right. since he lives in cali and i in las vegas i go and visit him. not once has he come and visit me. its harder for him than it if for me to go that is y i have been goin to see him. but now i am thinking if he really loved me he would come no matter what. i do love him and he is so sweet and i really want to be with him. i just don't know if i should wait a little bit longer to be with him and wait until i'm 18 or fight to be with him now! if any one could give me advice to help me decided please help! Reply to this Question
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reader, puhd  +, writes (20 January 2008):
I agree with Laura. What you have to realise is that there are many years to go. Don't think that your boyfriend is the best thing since sliced bread. There are 6 billion people on this planet and i'm sure there is a guy out there that is more perfect for you. Live a little. Enjoy times with your friends and people that really care and matter.
But don't let him dictate your life to you. Noone has a right to do that to anyone.
You should definitely wait to be with him. Things might change. I'm sure you're sick of being told this but you are still young........its a good thing being young. I wish i had your time!
Just remember that if its meant to be and that he is the perfect one for you then he'll wait for you.
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reader, xylplxym +, writes (20 January 2008):
Well you may have to consider the possiblity that he doesn't truely love you. Long distance relationships can work but only if both persons are equally commited. since that doesn't appear to be the case, don't get your hopes up about this relationship. And if he really is the controlling, jealous type then definitely don't rush this relationship. Maybe you should break it off, but if you do be careful. If he is that type then he probably won't stand for it and think you are leaving him for someone else. I don't mean to scare you, just make you aware of what to expect.
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (20 January 2008):
 It is like the call of the wild. If the call is very strong , there is nothing to stop you.You are still young and have many things to learn about relationships.
If he loves you , he will wait till you are 18 or until you are ready.You need to be aware that a relationship is different when you stay apart and when you stay together.
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