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male
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:For some reason (dunno if it was a good idea or not) I registered on match.com a few months ago.Anyways, I got a message from someone on there saying they were interested, and she gave her email address. It was 12 days after she'd sent that I replied - had been quite a while since I'd even bothered looking.Anyway we exchanged a couple of emails, and when she didn't reply to one I thought that is that and forgot about it. This was early January.Just a few days ago though, something inspired me to email her again, and she replied very soon. We exchanged a few emails, and I told her I was glad to have got in touch again. She replied that she was glad that I had also.Anyway, we seem to be getting on really well at the moment, and she indicated wanting to meet. I'd like to very much, just not yet. She's the same I guess.My questions are : should I meet her at all? I want to leave it a few weeks more definitely. If I tell her this would that cause her to lose interest?And also, any advice on how to approach meeting her? As in, should I think of it more as meeting potential girlfriend (which I guess it is), or should I just try my best to just treat as an opportunity to get to know someone on friendly terms before deciding on anything? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 March 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionMaybe nerves, maybe uncertainty about whether or not to meet someone I have only ever talked to online.
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