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Should I let him go or hold on?

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Question - (3 January 2008) 4 Answers - (Newest, 4 January 2008)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, *eghancarr-x writes:

Heyy.. i met this guy on my holiday to Tunisia in june. i came home to realise i fell in love with this guy.I might be going back this summer and i know theres a chance he wont still be working there!

I Really love him and he is all i have been able to think about since i came back.

I Miss him and dont want to let go bt dont know wether it is for the best!.

should i let him go and move on or wait and see what happens when i go back in summer?.

Please Help..

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A female reader, Meghancarr-x United Kingdom +, writes (4 January 2008):

Meghancarr-x is verified as being by the original poster of the question

Thanks:).. AndI Know Everyone Has A Summer ROmance But It Just Felt So Right. He Was SOo Sweet N That. Basically All you could ask for in a guy! N i wasnt loinely before my holiday i actually had just met the best friends and had a boyfriend but maybe i was just lonely. And he did try and contact me but i kept hanging up because no one was saying anything later i realised it was him.! but Thank You For your help :) x

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A reader, anonymous, writes (4 January 2008):

Sadly knowing what these holiday resorts are like I'm sure he has had his pick of other girls over the last 6 months or so.

Put it down to a summer fling/holiday romance and move on with your life. I'm sure there's plenty of other guys who are much closer to you than this guy in Tunisia!

Everyone has a summer love like him that they will never forget :)

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A male reader, helpme001 United Kingdom +, writes (4 January 2008):

hey there i saw no one had answered so i thought i would give you my opinion but that is all it is there are no wrong or right answers only you can make that decision... the way i see it is that you have a classic holiday romance problem and i think you should move on and forget him... the problem is your were on hols and when your on hols everyone developes a care free attitude for a guess you were lonely before the hols so when you get there your lonely heart coupled with sun sea and the holiday atmosphere put you in a state of false happiness... thats why we pay for hols its the feel good factor and in the end this will vanish and you will see it for what it is which is a crush on someone who works thousand of miles away in a place you were happy to be but ask yourself this do you have contact with him,does he call you daily to see how you are,has he offered to come see you... if he doesnt do any of this then it was just a hol romance and he probably has moved on to the next girl already. hope you choose wisely xxxx

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A female reader, Laura1318 Malaysia +, writes (4 January 2008):

Laura1318 agony auntIf he is the one for you , he will come back for you. If he is not , then he is somebody's.You need to be philosophical about meeting people,people come and go... There are always new ones to replace those old ones and opportunity is always there.

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