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female
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anonymous
writes:Hi...i'm looking for advice on sort of a relationship. I dated a close friend for some time and things didnt work out due to previous baggage on his part. We broke this off and didnt talk for some time. Recently he came ack into my life and we hung out. That night I tried kissing him. He kissed me but then pulled away and said he wanted to do the right thing for once. Since that night things have been very weird. I guess my question is... do I try to fix things or just delete him out of my life? I am in love with him and he says he doesnt love me as anything more than a friend. I wish i could be his friend but too many hurtful things happended in the past that i can't get over. If i take distance now, what if he refuses to ever talk to me again? I sound like an idiot, but this is really bothering. He said that I am perfect but the only reason he cant be with me is because he doesnt feel it in his stomach.. please please help!!!!
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reader, neonpinkngooey +, writes (12 June 2008):
 I think you should take another short hiatus from him.. Right now you're heartbroken, and you need time to get over him, and to get over what happened. It is really hard to jump right back into friendship after all that. Tell him you feel strongly towards him, and that for now, being friends is really difficult for you. If you are close friends, he will understand. I don't think he will refuse to talk to you; it doesn't seem as if he would just throw your friendship away like that. Good luck with whatever you choose to do!
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