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writes:Hi i ahve known a girl for 4 years. We were quite close but this year have really grown to like theis girl and i eventually asked her out. We saw each other all saturday and sunday and we were brilliant together. But on sunday nite i got a call saying that she found it a lil wierd as we were close friends for so long and doesnt want a boyfriend at the moment. I asked could anything happen in the future and i got the reply of maybe. What do i do next? I think this girl is amazing and a personality to die for and i want to b with her what do i do? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 October 2008): From the sound of it, she's not comfortable with the idea of dating someone she's always seen as a friend. To her she may not see you in the category of "Dating". It's awkward for her and she may be a bit confused for her own feelings - how she sees/feels for you.Friend? Potential boyfriend?Give her little space and time to think. Continue being her friend until she makes it clear, whether she wants you or not. Don't push her.While you wait, sort out your own feelings. Are you sure you like her? Is it just attraction? Everything just flows from there, somehow it'll work out. Good luck.
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reader, loundav4eva +, writes (6 October 2008):
find someone else! i know it sounds stupid and probably impossible right now but 4 months ago i got that same advise and now i am totally over him and have never felt better. the reason i say this is because if she can speand all day sat n sun wif you and then tell you it ment nothing then shes not worth it move on mate and enjoy being single cause its a hell of a lot easier!
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