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writes: My girlfriend of 3 years lies to me about almost everything. She's lied to me about her family, her past and even the most trivial of things like her exam results and where she stayed on her damn holiday!!I find it difficult to believe a word that comes out of her mouth, and although I love her I find it difficult to believe she feels the same even when she says she does. She doesn't know I know because when I've asked her her reply is always more lies. She's smart, so she doesn't tangle herself up (I've yet to see it at least)but I know from things her parents have said that she is lying. It's putting a real strain on my trust for her but I can't help but love her! what should I do?
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reader, tux  +, writes (18 June 2006):
 Trust is very important in a relationship. If you cannot trust her then it'll only lead to pain in the future. If she lies as much as you say she does even over trivial things, I would pack my bags because this is not going to go anywhere. You'll just always end up doubting what she says. But it's going to be up to you to revaluate your relationship with her to see if you can put up with her lying. I personally wouldn't.
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reader, xxchantellexx +, writes (18 June 2006):
 Hi there,
I can see why you feel this way, anyone would feel the same. Maybe your girlfriend feels that she needs to tell these lies to impress you or maybe she feels insecure with the actual truth. Try to show her that good exam results and her family past are not important and you love her for her. If this has no effect then it could be time to talk about how her lying is making you feel and explain that the silly lying is making you wonder if she is lying about more serious things and making it impossible to trust her. hope this helps
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