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*ike2000
writes:Hey everyone. I'm a very honest person to myself to start with but I need some help figuring out my sexual orientation. Thing is I love women their bodies everything about them. Sex with a woman is great and what I crave always. Thing is I like to wear sexy lacy panties. Thongs cheekies the whole nine yards. I guess its a turn on in a way. Okay I know guys do it and are still strait but I'm also very attracted to penises. Not the rest of a guy but really just the package. Again I'm honest here. I really have the urge to touch and have oral but have never done it so question is am I gay? Bi or just experimental? I feel so damn confused. I want to be happy in life please someone give me guidance
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 January 2011): I think you have bisexual tendency and that might progress to the point where you will end up doing something about it. Only you will know and figure out whether it is something you want to continue doing or get turned off by it.
I have had bi experience in the past and I was ok with it, in fact I likeed and enjoyed the oral part of it. I often think about it and if I were not married I would do it.
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reader, mike2000 +, writes (9 January 2011):
mike2000 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHi Gamine, I have nothing against porn but I'm actually a very fit and attractive guy that tends to find lovers easy and I mean women. The panty thing kinda stems from a female partner that got turned on by me putting on her panties. That was ages ago but I guess it stuck. The guy thing has always been a fantasy since young but now I feel the urge to do it. So I guess the porn answer would be not really though once in awhile but not regularly. At my age I'm at a loss here as I doubt I can find either a woman to dress up with or a guy to experiment with
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reader, The Realist  +, writes (9 January 2011):
 It sounds like right now you are in the process of experimenting with your feelings towards men and women. You very well may be bi sexual and if you decide to it may help for you to find someone who you can trust to experiment with to see if it is only a fantasy thing or if you can actually be with a guy.
I don't think I would ever really be able to figure that out for myself without actually going out there and seeing what it was like.
Good luck with figuring it all out, I hope this helped a bit.
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