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writes:ive been with my boyfriend for almost a year and we have had sex countless times. i lost my virginity to him but my problem is is that it never feels good. weve used lube before, different positions, everything. all it feels to me is pain when it first goes in, and when the pain kind of stops it just feels like uncomfortable pressure in my vagina. the only way i can climax is if he rubs my clit at the same time. is there any hope for me?
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reader, MissDesire +, writes (22 January 2009):
 First off... relax. Sex should never be painful, but definitely past memories of sex hurting is only gonna make things worse. When you expect pain your abdominal muscles will tense up and may make it worse than it really is. As far as only climaxing when he stimulates your clit, this is common for many woman; which is why some prefer girl on top so their clit is stimulated while having sex, and I think the guys enjoy that one too. I would definitely consider talking to your doctor about this as well and getting checked out to make sure there is nothing else that could be causing this pain. My best advice beyond that is relax and make sure your boyfriend knows and understands how you feel as well. Cheers sweetie. ^_^
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