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51-59,
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writes:Here's my problem. I like women and have lots of female friends, and don't have a problem getting a date or relationship. In fact I find it really easy. But I just can't relate to men. I feel like a female or submissive male in their company. I have no male friends.My ex wife cheated on me twice and I think this may have something to do with it, because as a teenager and in my early 20's I was just one of the guys. Also I had friends then, but I've moved from the area and had a mental breakdown after my marriage broke up. Can anyone help?
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 June 2008): Thanks for your answer Waterloo Sunset at least you bothered. I think its like the song says 'everyday i look at the world through my window', thats how it feels.
I think my problem is here to stay, i've tried councilling but to no avail.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 June 2008): If you had a mental breakdown then your energy and confidence was sapped completely from you and i can fully understand why you are like this. If your ex cheated on you twice then that is also in your mind and it will take some getting over and getting it out of your mind. You maybe need to see a counsellor. Have a word with your local doctor as this could also stem from some kind of depression that needs to be treated sooner rather than later. I can thoroughly understand and i certainly feel for you.But i think you do need some professional help. You are a beautful person and dont put yourself down because of the horrible past that you have had to go through. Take each day as it comes and life will get better. I think the problems that you have associated with men will go away in time. You need some proper healing. Let me know how you get on.
take care
xx
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