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writes:Hi everyone, here is an update of my problem with my friends. Here is a link to my previous questionhttp://www.dearcupid.org/question/my-two-best-friends-that-i-have-put.htmlThey have tried to contact me in the first few days, one by texting and one by email, but only for a while. After they would contact once or twice in the past ten days, and i find that not to be enough at all, and i am very dissappointed on their efforts. One has just been dumped by her idiot boyfriend and the other has had her dissertation to hand in, so i know their lives go on, but it still hurts. Now the one dumped text me to meet next weekend, and i havn't answered as im thinking (have barely been answering them all two weeks) and then she texted again after a day saying "why r u ignoring me, r u never gona speak to us again, i asked u to meet next weekend" as if she was screaming at me!! She definitely will not get a response in this way, but i was considering speaking to them this weekend and now shes put me off! Do you think i should see them soon? or take my time even though it means they might loose interest and stop contact? Thank you everyone xxxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 September 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHi thanks for your answer, i did tell them , as soon as they accidentally sent the email i emailed them both i told them everything i saw and how i felt. They emailed and text back but have barely tried in the past week or so.
i know i need to see them eventually but i duno what to say to them and i dont think anything will really change, as they might try i say "i ddnt mean it" but it was said, and this went on for 3 months!So thats why im hesitant...but then if i dnt see them i think itll be harder to move on...
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reader, Cokey +, writes (25 September 2007):
One question.. you haven't clearly stated this.. have you told them about this?? If not then do! - if you have - let them know how much that hurts and see what their reactions are.
As for you not talking to them - it won't solve anything - i'd say go and see her and see how it goes. On the other hand - find friends that are more stable and dont go backstabbing behind peoples backs!
Ask one question - why are they still attempting to be friends with you if they found so many things to criticise about.. it may have been an email that was on the back of an arguement - find out everything before you go making any decisions!
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