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Problems in the bedroom..help!

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Question - (3 October 2010) 2 Answers - (Newest, 3 October 2010)
A male United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Guys I really need help. I used to masterbate a lot. i mean probably 2 or 3 times a day. now i have a girlfriend and the past few times we have tried to have sex i haven't been able to get hard. idk wtf is wrong. its really becoming a nuisance and she thinks its because I don't find her attractive. there any tips or tricks to kinda help me out here?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (3 October 2010):

Your hand’s grip is rough, and vagina is soft. You just need time to get use to that feeling around your penis.

So don’t stress over it. Continue to lie together and time will mend this minor problem. I just got off that boat myself.

But try laying off the masturbation for a while. You want to forget your hand and get use to her vagina remember!

All good.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (3 October 2010):

Hey!

mmmmm...well when you masturbated did you view porn? If so, that could be an issue as youre mind is used to a certain stimulation. Do you have any weight problems? Sometimes bigger men have problems because of lack of exercise. I think for you it might be more psychological...are u nervous? any anxiety about performance? those too could also have a factor.

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