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Out of love? Sick of me?

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Question - (15 August 2010) 3 Answers - (Newest, 16 August 2010)
A female Philippines age 30-35, anonymous writes:

my boyfriend doesn't show much affection now compared before. we've been together for years.he doesn't cuddle or kiss me. he's like staying away from me. he prefer to have more time with his friends than to me. is he out of love? or he is just sick of me? what will i do?

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A male reader, LittleAlfie United States +, writes (16 August 2010):

LittleAlfie agony auntPerhaps you can get involved with his games as well. Video games are something men of all ages and maturity levels enjoy. Even some women. If you haven't given an honest crack at it, try getting him to teach you how to become interested. It'll help create more conversation between the two of you.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (16 August 2010):

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ok thanks for your response :) it would really help a lot. But i think that he's still immature for his age. he has more time playing online games that's why we have less time hanging out or doing fun stuff.

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A male reader, LittleAlfie United States +, writes (16 August 2010):

LittleAlfie agony auntI've been guilty of this more than once. There really is nothing you can do, but take solace in knowing that it doesn't necessarily mean he's fallen out of love. He could have a lot on his mind, but may not want to share. That's okay and being patient is probably the set thing you can do. But in the mean time, try to think of activities to do with your partner outside of the bedroom. Do things you know he'll enjoy. It will help him feel more comfortable with sharing with you and reestablish the friendship aspect that is essential in a true loving relationship. Things should work themselves out over time provided your both willing to be patient and open with one another.

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