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writes: Hi, I have been with my boyfriend now for 2 years. He is 30 and I am 22. The problem is he won't let me meet his parents and when I ask him why he goes all quiet and doesn't like to talk about it. I thought it was because he is Chinese and I am white and that his parents wouldn't approve, but I met his mum once because we bumped into her when we were out and she seems really nice. We're getting engaged next month which I'm really happy about because I love him so much but should I be bothered about the parent thing?
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 October 2005): Some people dont like to talk about things that are happening or happened in their family life..be patient with him he will talk to you eventually about what is going on with this..some people find they need to sort through things in their own head their own way before they share it with someone else.
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reader, qschick +, writes (17 October 2005):
Your boyfriend is obviously very serious about you and wants to commit himself to you forever so he is obviously not ashamed of you. The fact that his mother was so nice to you indicates that there is no unwillingness on her side to meet you properly. I dont believe in a relationship that you should know every little thing about eachother but this is not a trivial thing and is making you uneasy, I think he should care enough about you to explain. Dont make any ultimatums - just tell him that it would mean alot to you to meet them and hopefully he will realise how serious you are and explain
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 October 2005): you should be worried... Veeeeeeeeeeery worried...
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