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female
age
30-35,
*lauda
writes:I met this guy at a uni class I go to every week a few weeks ago and I am so confused! One minute I think he likes me and the next I have no idea.He insists on walking me home as class finishes late and it is dark, we have gone out for a drink and he held my hands and we got on so well. Last week he brought in a film I haven't seen and suggested he come round to watch it. But there was only one night I could do this week and he was working til late so it hasn't happened. He did phone to suggest after class next week but he was really short on the phone and I just don't know what to make of it all. He has mentioned a few times that he has a routine in his life he likes and I am not sure why he mentions that.I'm just so confused! I don't know what to expect from one week to the next and I hate the way I look forward to the day of the class, looking forward to seeing him yet so unsure I am worried he feels he has to spend time with me and get me home and I have no intention of becoming a burden.*sigh*I just need some advice! Reply to this Question
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reader, SonOfMan  +, writes (17 February 2012):
 I think the next time you meet, when there is no rush, when you are both just chilling and relaxed; you should talk to him openly about how you feel.
Find out what he wants and explain your confusion. This is the best way to clear up any concerns and uncertainty.
He may be unsure, he may have other commitments, family, work etc. If you are both honest and clear about what you want, there will be no uncertainty and you'll know where to take things from there.
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