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writes:I have met a man that I enjoy spending time with. We do things together and treats my daughter as if he's always going to be there.He have a girlfriend and he brings me around her and treats me like I'm someone elses girl(she knows better). He sends out mixed signals and play the I heard this and that about you,then he says he's lying and appologize for it and say he promise not to do it again. I already has trust issues that I'm trying to deal with and I don't want to get hurt this soon again. Should I trust him? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 March 2012): If he has a girlfriend, why does he have to bring you around and treat you as someone elses girl if nothing is going on? If something is going on between both of you guys, you are only setting up yourself for hurt. The first thing he is going to say if the situation gets ugly is that you knew he had a girlfriend from the get go and you still chose to hang out with him knowing that your feelings are becoming stronger. If his girlfriend knows different that is setting up yourself for drama, which your daughter would be in the middle of. Do you really want to put yourself and your daughter in such a situation when it could be avoided all together?
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 March 2012): In my opinion, no you should not trust this man. He has a girlfriend, and he takes you around her and acts like your someone else's girl. That shows that to him his girlfriend is the one who is important to him, not you. He sending you mixed signals because he knows he can. This is a situation you need to walk away from. You have feelings for this man, but he does not have feelings for you. He has a girlfriend, so what are expecting to happen? He isn't going to leave his girlfriend for you, because he has already shown that she is the one who he wants to be with, otherwise he wouldn't be protecting his relationship with her by acting like your someone else's girl. Either way your NOT his girl, and all that is going to happen in this situation is that you are going to get hurt. Walk away, and find yourself a man who isn't in a relationship, who is free to be with you if he wants to be, and who can have you as the most important person to him. You have all the information you need, I know it isn't what you want to hear really, but in my opinion it's the truth. Good Luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 March 2012): No you shouldn't trust him, he has a girlfriend and even brings you around her and acts like your someone else's girl, that says everything. His girlfriend is the important one to him, not you. I suggest you walk away from him and find yourself someone who doesn't have a girlfriend and who will put you first. Good Luck
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