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anonymous
writes:I've been with my fiance for nearly 3 yrs now, but i don't feel like i love him as much anymore. i still really care about him, i just don't think i love him. he's really clingy and tbh it's suffocating me, also it's really irritating. i have told him this plenty of times but the message never seems to get through to him. i always feel relieved when i'm not with him and i don't miss him at all, which i feel terrible for because i know he thinks the world of me. howewever don't have sex that much at all anymore and he makes it feel like it's my fault. i don't know if i want to be with him anymore.another thing is for over 4 yrs now i've really liked my cousin (there's no blood relation at all, but i've grown up knowing him as my cousin) who has actually turned out to be my fiance's best friend. however i didn't do anything about it because i knew nothing would ever happen. but last year we were at a party and my cousin told me he loved me, that he'd dreamt of having sex with me and tried to kiss me, i pushed him back because of my fiance and my cousin's girlfriend (i don't believe in cheating), then he tried again but i pushed him away again. even though i'd done nothing wrong i felt terrible for it. i tried speaking to my cousin but he just denied it, then t onto claimed he couldn't remember. even though i'd pushed him away i wanted to kiss him back so much.then a couple of days ago we were at another party and me and my cousin stayed up til about 8 in the morning talking and we go onto the subject of what we'd love to do in the bedroom and then he said he'd love to do it all to me, he also told me that i was stunning and he rubbed his hand up and down my stomach. he also ran his hand through my hair and put his arm round me. i don't know what's going on because that's twice something like that has happened but both times we've been drinking so i don't know whether he means any of it or not. this is also making the way i feel about my fiance so much harder.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 May 2010): U should tell ur bf to give u a break be honest and tell him how you feel but dnt say anything about ur cousin. And see where it takes u from there if u still wanna be wit ur bf. Dnt make a mistake and get married if u dnt knw what are ur feelings for him.
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