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writes: Hi,I met my boyfriend at Uni, we've been together for 2 years and for the past 4 months we've been in a long distance relationship because we both have a work placement with different companies in different cities. It's been difficult lately as he is getting busier. He has said that he's not sure whether he wants to be in a relationship because he is so busy. We love each other and there is nobody else. It's just that it has got a little too intense. I have told him that i am more than prepared for us to cool it a bit i.e. not put pressure on each other to organise visits (as he is very busy) and not phone each other as much. To ease the pressure off. I really want this to work and am positive it can. I know him so well that most of his decisions are usually spur of the moment. I know that we can make this work and that it would be good for it not to be intense at the moment for both of us, so that in the future we can work it back up. I need some help with what I can do to make it work!! Do we have a chance?
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reader, beenthere +, writes (8 November 2005):
from what you say, i reckon you have every chance. phone each other as often as you can. i guess the situation is only temporary so cooling things is good. you'll appreciate the time you do get together and make the most of it
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