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writes: I need a plan! ok so I've been trying to figure out what to do about this guy I really like...see he’s told me how much he likes me and of course I like him a lot to. but I need to know where this relationship is going...right now were just "friends with bennefits i guess you could say" I want it to go further but I don't know if he wants to go beyond "friends" because he just got out of a 10 month relationship...I just feel that I might be a rebound and I definitely don't want that...I've tried talking to him about this and we haven’t got anywhere...I’m seeing him this weekend so I definitely need a plan to figure out where we stand! and talking just doesn't seem to work! Please help!! Reply to this Question |
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reader, samantha  +, writes (8 February 2006):
 I hate to tell you but it seems like this is all he wants. Any guy who would be friends with benefits, probably doesnt care for you enough to start a relashonship with you. They wouldn't start off purely sexual if they wanted it to go further, they would know that this would jeapodise any future seriousness. Girls tend to be more willing to be freinds with benefits, or sleep with a guy on the first date, because ..well women are desperate and insecure by nature. Especially if they really like a guy. But hey Im no pshycic. Just ask him!! Be up front with him and say " Hey i really like you alot, would you maybe want to drop the 'with benefits' and add 'boy' in front of your title?" (boy-friend get it?)If he doesnt think youre adorable, hes a loser!!
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