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My sex drive is waaay higher than my girlfriend's...

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Question - (8 November 2005) 3 Answers - (Newest, 9 November 2005)
A male , *ideboy writes:


My girlfriend and I have been together for over a year now, but I seem to have a overly high sex drive. I really don't know what to do about it anymore. It's putting a lot of pressure on our relationship, and I think if I carry on hassling her like to do we won't be together for much longer.

So if any of you can help me please do so,


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A female reader, beenthere +, writes (9 November 2005):

is it that you have a high sex drive or is it that the sex you do have is not as fulfilling as you'd like. try spicing it up a bit if you and your partner are both comfortble with's not unusual for a man to have a higher sex drive than his partner although i have a higher sex drive than my bf so i know how frustrated you must feel. don't keep pestering her. have sex with her as often as she wants to. try to make it as enjoyable for her as it is for you. you don't want to push it because that could put her off more. if you think it's a real problem you may need to see if your doctor can refer you to someone who can help.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (9 November 2005):

my boyfriend is completely the same and im happy with that although he isnt the best at having sex hes never made me orgasm ! weve tried everything but nup doesnt work id never break up with him were so in love but what to do i dont know! try taking ur girlfriend out on a date again not having sex so much cut it down then it will be better when the time comes

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A reader, anonymous, writes (9 November 2005):

I am a woman with the same problem, I have a very high sex drive and usually my boyfriends don't.

If the relationship is going well, I can usually deal with it.

Unfortunately, I haven't been with any guy that seems to be husband-material, so I didn't have to worry about being with someone for very long and bear the physical frustration.

Ask your girlfriend what she fancies in bed.Maybe she would be willing to have sex more often if it was to her exclusive benefit.Maybe she feels that sex is all about you and your gratification.

Also,sometimes, highly sexed people seem uncaring and unromantic. Maybe she values sex as part of the romance and can't dissociate sex and love.Therefore, if you are requesting " wild", " rough " sex, she feels you don't love her or respect her.

Communication is best.

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