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writes:Views wanted on this please. I have a very good friend who has had a partner for the last 6 months and I have been with my partner for 4 years. However, we invited them round for supper last week and all night, my friend kept bending over and basically showing off her tits. I never said anything at the time but after they had gone, I said to my patner "did so and so have her tits hanging out all night" and he replied that she did. Now i believe she has had issues because I have been with my bf for 3 years and she had some time on her own after an acrimonious split from her last partner . Now, I know its the fashion to perhaps wear a low cut top but this was a casual dinner at our place. Part of me wants to say to her that we have noticed and that if she comes for supper again, could she keep her tits in (of course I will say this with a dash of good humour). There has been other stuff as well but I've brushed this aside - one other example was we went to her sister's house for a bbq last year, and at that time she was on her own. It was a garden party so we had all dressed accordingly - apart from my friend who was dressed to kill. She had suede boots on, so she couldn't join everyone around the bonfire (muddy grass), her makeup was immaculate and at one point she began trying to pole dance around the garden gazeebo. She also was bending over in a provocotive way talking to the cat (this was in the living room and she basically got on all fours and bent her arse over in our direction). Yes, we all noticed but we all looked away to carry on talking about something else!! Should I just leave this and not say anything or would anyone else be a bit annoyed in trying to figure out her behaviour? Reply to this Question
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reader, Your friend  +, writes (14 July 2009):
 You're right she did get dolled up for someone either your b/f or her sisters husband (don't dismiss this) depends who she was flashing her boobs at. As she was willing to do this in such a small family environment then she is a big attention seeker or has a self destructive streak as her sister wouldn't have been impressed either.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 July 2009): OP here. The BBQ we went to was her sister's bbq and the only other people there were her sister's husband and their kids (her nephews). This is why I have brought it up - she knew my bf and I were going and I questioned at the time "who has she got this dolled up for" when it's just her family and us.
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reader, Your friend +, writes (13 July 2009):
As her behaviour is the same for everyone and not just you and your boyfriend then I would not take this personally. I wouldn't worry about it as the only time it is a problem for you is when she is over at your place. I wouldn't talk to her unless you have her over often.
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