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writes:I am a young woman and my sex drive is off the charts and it always has been, as far back as I can remember. My core values won't let me sleep around, I have never had a one night stand and always been in long term relationships. At the moment I am single and my mind is plagued by my desires. I masturbate at least once a day. I can't concentrate on work - all I can think about is how much I want/need to sleep with someone. I feel abnormal because I have always had higher sex drives than my boyfriends, to the point where they grew to resent it. I have lots of work to do at the moment but whenever I try and read something or write, all I can think about is sex. I read somewhere that this could be because of hormone imbalances - I might have too much testosterone, but I don't think that this is the case. Has anyone else ever had to deal with this? How do I stop this from affecting my life? I've been like this as long as I can remember. Right now, I do not have the time to spare to enjoy myself whenever I feel the need, but if I don't then it pervades my thoughts and I cannot concentrate on anything else.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 April 2010): You are welcome, babe. Nothing abnormal about you honey. Take care of yourself and enjoy your body and your youth.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 April 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for replying to my question - I feel much less abnormal now. I guess keeping busy is a good idea, being in public places rather than alone at home if possible, and finding someone to match - all good responses. Thanks guys
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 April 2010): I agree with the other girls here. I am always horny and masturbate a lot. I am still a virgin and liek boys but I am not racing to have sex yet. I think I am more horny than other girls, but I think that is a good thing. I take care of myself and dont have to worry about disease or pregnancy.I know about horny. One day I was in school I asked to go to the bathroom becaus I got so worked up in health class that I just had to go do it. I guess I got sweaty and my face got flushed by orgasm, because the Art teacher caught me walking out of the girls room and looked at my face and asked me what I was doing in there. She asked me if I was smoking and to put out my hands to see if they smelled like smoke. She started to like smell my fingers and then she stopped and looked embarassed. I guess my fingers still smelled like my privates. I think she thought I was doing that, well I got really embarased and turned bright red! Every time I see that teacher in the hallway she always gives me a little wink. I think I blush every time! I like to draw, but now I can't take Art class! So pleasure yourself whenever you want, but be careful not to get caught like me!
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 April 2010): You're young. We were all horny as hell in during our teens and I agree with Calico. Seeing this as a negative attribute will only stigmatize you, and that would be a regrettable. I am not condoning a careless, cavalier attitude toward sex. It is always advisable to be intimate with people you trust and can match your needs- and during the periods in between when you don't have someone who suits you- play around with your body. Get toys, movies, learn what turns you on and go erogenous zone expedition. I am sure it will be a pleasant one.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 April 2010): It sounds like you are just like me, perpetually horny. I never had the mind set to sleep around either and was only ever with one guy, my husband. I remember starting to masturbate when I was 12 and since then I do every day, sometimes twice per day. I carry K-Y jelly with me and usually wear skirts so I can rub myself whenever the urge is too great. I masturbate while driving, on a train, on an airplane (once I masturbated the entire flight next to a strange guy - I think he saw me but he played it cool - he actually got an erection watching me - that was awesome), while shopping, on elevators, in the movies, you name the place and I have probably orgasmed there. When my husband and I were first dating I went on the pill so we could have as much sex as we wanted. We had sex at least twice a day well into our twenties, but then we had kids so we cut back to sex once a day. I have been known to masturbate in our car while my hubby is driving. He usually reaches over and helps, he is great that way. He never judges me and just knows that I am always horny.I am glad to see that you do not sleep around, given your condition and you will be much happier in the long run if you stick to masturbation. There is nothing wrong with pleasuring yourself. Everyone does it, some more than others. You are going to have to find yourself a great guy who can go at least twice a day to try to keep you satisfied. Even then I am sure that you will still masturbate between intercourse. I say enjoy and treasure your hornyness. I would rather be horny my whole life than frigid!
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 April 2010): I have a tremendous sex drive. I have since puberty. I have only had one girlfriend who had one to match. If she wasn't such a psycho, it would have been a match made in heaven. I too masturbate once or twice a day. It helps, but at times I think it makes things worse.
Lately I've been trying to re-channel those energies. Working on a new hobby, going out with friends, etc. It kind of works. I haven't found anything to truely get the urges to go away, but for the most part I can concentrate on my daily life.
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